Did you ever go looking for something and can’t find it?  Of course you have!

How about in the process of looking for that other thing,you found something else?  Of course you have!(And didn’t find the  main thing I was looking for)

This is what I found:

if you unaware of who Lois Wilson is read this:

http://www.steppingstones.org/loisstory.html

change is possible