Comments for Jeffrey M. Brandler, EdS CAS SAP http://www.changeispossible.org Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Addictions Specialist and Substance Abuse Professional Wed, 08 Feb 2012 12:31:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Best Reasons to Avoid Couples Counseling by Diana J. Krafcik http://www.changeispossible.org/2012/02/best-reasons-to-avoid-couples-counseling/#comment-76 Diana J. Krafcik Wed, 08 Feb 2012 12:31:25 +0000 http://www.changeispossible.org/?p=597#comment-76 11. "The marriage is over, why bother." 12." I want to work on the marriage, but he doesn't." 13. "He wants to work on the relationship but I don't, lost the trust." 14. "your (female) therapist will side with you and gang up on me". 15. "We've seen other couples counselors and they didn't help." 16. Cultural conditioning...it's a weakness... 17. Revealing vulnerability and revealing true feelings is scarey... 18."I can't afford to rock the boat, with the economy and all". 19. "If we didn't argue about money or the kids we'd be fine?" 20. "My friend went and she and her husband are now divorced, it doesn't work. 21. "I don't need anyone to tell me how to run my marriage. I can figure it out myself. Thank you very much!" 22. "I would very much like to go into counseling but my partner thinks everything is just fine.." 11. “The marriage is over, why bother.”
12.” I want to work on the marriage, but he doesn’t.”
13. “He wants to work on the relationship but I don’t, lost the trust.”
14. “your (female) therapist will side with you and gang up on me”.
15. “We’ve seen other couples counselors and they didn’t help.”
16. Cultural conditioning…it’s a weakness…
17. Revealing vulnerability and revealing true feelings is scarey…
18.”I can’t afford to rock the boat, with the economy and all”.
19. “If we didn’t argue about money or the kids we’d be fine?”
20. “My friend went and she and her husband are now divorced, it doesn’t work.
21. “I don’t need anyone to tell me how to run my marriage. I can figure it out myself. Thank you very much!”
22. “I would very much like to go into counseling but my partner thinks everything is just fine..”

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