The interesection of music and therapy continues. Watch the classic Carole King song ?Will you still love me tomorrow?

Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow

Tonight you’re mine completely,
You give your love so sweetly,
Tonight the light of love is in your eyes,
But will you love me tomorrow?

Is this a lasting treasure,
Or just a moment’s pleasure,
Can I believe the magic of your sighs,
Will you still love me tomorrow?

Tonight with words unspoken,
You said that I?m the only one,
But will my heart be broken,
When the night (When the night)
Meets the morning sun.

I’d like to know that your love,
Is love I can be sure of,
So tell me now and I won’t ask again,
Will you still love me tomorrow?
Will you still love me tomorrow?

A great song that talks about a person who is fearful that their partner will not love them tomorrow. Often times relationships occur with one partner feeling this way all of the time. They have significant issues with abandonment and rejection. They are fearful that due to their lack of self esteem, that their partner will leave them. They do all kinds of things to keep the person happy, keep them from that ultimate fear–rejection/abandonment. When that occurs, they are like to hurt themselves or others with anger/rage. People who fit this profile generally have

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

What is BPD?

This is a complicated disorder that affects many people and their families. I have seen many partners, who get into a relationship with a BPD person, have their self esteem shredded by the disorder. You can’t fix them, but you can fix yourself. Go to therapy, join a group, go to websites like bpdfamily.com and read the message boards. There is help, there is hope, change is possible.